An Author-Led Discussion Series Based on Chosen not Chasing

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• Read the book.​

• Share your perspective.

• Discover what happens when meaningful conversations lead to lasting change.

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Have you ever wondered...

• Why do I keep choosing relationships that leave me feeling unseen?

• Why is it so hard to let go of people who don't choose me?

• Why do I crave validation from people who can never truly give it?

• Can emotional wounds from the past still influence my relationships today?

 

These are the kinds of questions we'll explore together.

Chosen Conversations isn't a therapy group or a coaching program. It's a guided discussion centered around my book, Chosen, Not Chasing, where women come together to read, reflect, and engage in honest conversations about identity, relationships, healing, and emotional growth.

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What Is Chosen Conversations?

Chosen Conversations is an intimate, author-led discussion series where we'll read Chosen, Not Chasing together one chapter at a time.

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Each week you'll:

✔ Read the assigned chapters before we meet.

✔ Highlight passages that challenged or encouraged you.

✔ Bring one or two excerpts that stood out to you.

✔ Participate in thoughtful discussions with other women.

✔ Explore different perspectives in a safe and respectful environment.

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This isn't about having the "right" answers.

It's about creating meaningful conversations that help us think differently, grow personally, and understand ourselves more deeply.

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About the Book

Chosen not Chasing explores the psychology behind abandonment, rejection, attachment, people-pleasing, emotional dependency, and why so many of us spend years chasing relationships that were never capable of giving us what we truly needed.

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By combining psychological insight with practical application, the book helps readers recognize unhealthy patterns, understand where they began, and move toward healthier relationships and a stronger sense of identity.

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What to Expect

Each session lasts approximately two hours and includes:

• Welcome and casual conversation

• Guided discussion of the assigned chapters

• Participant-selected excerpts

• Reflection questions

• Open dialogue

• Weekly reading assignment

The goal isn't simply to finish a book.

The goal is to experience it.

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Who Is This For?

Chosen Conversations is designed for women who:

• Enjoy thoughtful discussions.

• Want to better understand relationship patterns.

• Appreciate psychology and personal growth.

• Are willing to read between sessions.

• Value hearing different perspectives.

• Desire meaningful conversations in a supportive environment.  

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Meeting Details

Location

📍 Starrlight Mead
Pittsboro, North Carolina

Schedule

Mondays

2:00–4:00 PM

8 Discussion Sessions

Limited to 10 women

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What's Included

Your registration includes:

✔ A complimentary copy of Chosen, Not Chasing

✔ Eight author-led discussion sessions

✔ Weekly discussion materials

✔ Reflection questions

✔ A welcoming community of women committed to meaningful conversation 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

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Is this a coaching program?

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No.

This is a guided discussion centered around the book Chosen, Not Chasing. While many participants may experience personal insight and growth, the focus is on reading, discussion, and shared learning—not coaching or therapy.

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Do I need to read before attending?

Yes.

Each week you'll receive the chapters to read before the next session so everyone comes prepared for discussion.

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What if I miss a meeting?

Life happens! While we encourage participants to attend all sessions to get the most from the experience, we understand that occasional conflicts may arise.

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Will I be asked to share personal experiences?

Only if you choose to.

Everyone is welcome to participate at their own comfort level. Listening is just as valuable as speaking.

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Do I need to purchase the book?

No.

A copy of Chosen not Chasing is included with your registration.

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Join Us

If you're ready to stop simply reading about healing and begin engaging in meaningful conversations that challenge your thinking, encourage reflection, and help you see relationships through a new lens...

Chosen Conversations is for you.  Join a small circle of 10 women for meaningful conversations that go beyond the pages of the book.

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Applications will remain open until August 21, 2026, or until all 10 spaces have been filled.

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Apply Today​

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